🌸 Aesthetic Little Luxuries
Graceful, feminine touches that feel like me.
• Soft cashmere
• Silk slips & lingerie
• Warm vanilla, amber, or white floral scents
• Fresh flowers (peonies, garden roses, orchids)
• Nude, ivory, champagne, soft blush, black lace
• Fine candles (Diptyque, Byredo, Jo Malone)
• Spa rituals, bath oils, soft blankets, quiet mornings
💐 Meaningful Gestures
Thoughtfulness that lingers long after the moment.
• A handwritten note
• A favorite book you think I’ll love
• A curated playlist
• Reservations somewhere warm & intimate
• Travel invitations with time to wander and savor
• Elegant wine or champagne
🎁 Treasures & Personal Indulgences
• Cashmere (cream, taupe, black)
• Perfumes:
– Maison Francis Kurkdjian
– Byredo Gypsy Water
– Parfums de Marly Delina
• Fine jewelry (minimalist gold, pearls, delicate pieces)
• Luxury boutiques I adore: Dior, Celine, Valentino, Loro Piana
– Dress size: S/36
• La Perla, Fleur du Mal, Agent Provocateur
– Lingerie: 75C/D/Small bottoms
• Designer heels (classic, elegant, understated)
– Shoe size: EU 37
🥂 Experiences I Love
Thoughtfulness comes in many forms, not only gifts.
- A slow dinner in a quiet, elegant restaurant
- Champagne in a suite with soft music
- Weekend escapes with windows open to the view
- Spa afternoons, warm robes, lingering touches
- Long conversations in dim lighting
- Travel — the kind where time stretches and both souls unwind
These moments nourish me far more deeply than any object ever could.
💌 Direct Tributes
“Some gestures speak louder in silence.”
For the gentlemen who prefer simplicity,
these options allow you to spoil me quietly and elegantly —
with no fuss, no pressure, and no guessing.
• Envelope of Appreciation — a classic gesture of generosity
• Bank or e-transfer — available upon request
• Gift cards — Apple • Dior • Celine • La Perla • Loro Piana • Neiman Marcus
• Digital gifts — Amazon, etc.
🌸 Travel Simplicity
If you’re inviting me away for a shared escape,
I appreciate:
• A pre-arranged per diem
• Spa time for myself during the trip
• A quiet moment to refresh upon arrival
These gestures ensure our time together feels effortless, relaxed, and beautifully memorable.
Thoughtful men don’t impress me with extravagance —
but with intention.
If you choose to indulge me,
know that it will be received with warmth…
and remembered with pleasure.
— Valerie